Do you take advantage of your birthday? Is it ok to not want to be with my kids and is it ok do do my own thing? I feel selfish… Dear Concerned Mommy, I have
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get my schedule aka life to where I need it to be? Between working, house, managing my kids and their schedules, I feel like I will never be able to breathe? Please help!
Simple But Not Simple Answer... Every solution comes with just another thing to do But this to do will eventually make your life easier..... PLAN... Yep you have to plan... Like everything LOL Wait! Keep
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, 2 to 3 times a week I meet my friend at the gym after work for an hour. However, the last few weeks one time a week we have not worked out. We sit in the sauna and just spend time venting to each other. This has not been good for my workouts but really good for my girlfriend and I to manage stress. I have been more patient at home with kids and my husband. BUT why do I feel so guilty?
Dear Guilty, The fact that you put time aside for yourself and you have a friend to hold you accountable is wonderful! What a good friend to meet you and confide in a few times
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