Dear Ultimate Abbey, Make up sex, does it work? Is it really good to have sex after a fight?

Dear Let’s Make Up, I will always encourage married sex. Make up sex is a real thing. Just like we see in the movies?! LOL The movie scene where the couple usually has some sort

Dear Let’s Make Up, I will always encourage married sex. Make up sex is a real thing. Just like we see in the movies?! LOL

The movie scene where the couple usually has some sort of disagreement, they go a length of time without talking, they meet, kiss passionately and have the best sex ever, ya know the kind where your both breathing heavy afterwards!

Well real make up sex works slightly different…

Obviously, with bigger issues make up sex is not always the answer and end all but it can be a part of making up.

Tidbit… for our readers who need to read this; sex should always feel good and right. Sex should always be wanted by both parties involved.

A conversation about your disagreement or fight should be had before jumping in to bed. Just because you had sex does not mean your issue will be resolved or sway your partner in to agreeing with you.

After you have this conversation and much of the issue has been resolved or on its way to being resolved…

YES, have make up sex!

The frustration and anger usually turn to a release of emotions and sense of security. With all of the emotions which have built up, just the kiss alone is going to have passion behind it. Sex after a fight can feel like an amazing relief.

Frustration finally let go, anger finally resolved. It reconnects you to your partner. Sex is also good for you. Sex boosts your immunity to handling stress better, not to mention you burn calories and build stamina.

Don’t forget the foreplay before the make up sex.

Sincerely,

Ultimate Abbey

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