Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get the love back I first had for my husband? I love him but life is so crazy and distracting we have lost the passion for each other?

Dear Good and Concerned Wifey, life is crazy! With all the demands we have on us we tend to lose sight of what really matters. Loving your husband matters; he is your person and deserves

Dear Good and Concerned Wifey, life is crazy! With all the demands we have on us we tend to lose sight of what really matters. Loving your husband matters; he is your person and deserves your love, attention, etc. Just as you deserve him and all of those things as well.

I have been in your shoes before and I tend to fall back there now and then… I honestly have done what I am about to suggest and my outcome has been extremely effective. I have found it difficult to do at first but I know if I can do it, so can you !
I suggest trying this for one week…. At least.

Yes, it’s a challenge!

Two times a day notice something he does right. Whether he says something kind and/or does something kind. Now listen! As a side note, it may be a very small thing, especially at first. For example, he helps clean up after dinner. Hug him and give him a kiss (it doesn’t have to be a passionate French kiss) even a peck on the cheek.

Your trend of doing this will eventually become effortless and will feel natural. This may sound backwards and like you are doing all of the work but you gotta trust me.

Let him feel your love and by giving love to your hubby you will soon see he will follow your lead. You learn to make time for each other. So much is to benefit by starting small. Human and physical touch will spark a physical chemistry between you and your husband. Physical touch is proven to be a necessity for healing, we are not meant to deprive ourselves of touch. Remember this doesn’t mean it has to be sexual, start small.

It may take sometime and it may not work in a week but as a week or so passes the little touches, thank you’s, and just simple kindness YOU are going to want more and so is your hubby!


Sincerely,

Ultimate Abbey

PSST Try cooking a meal together : )



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