Dear Mrs. Potential,My first words, (you may not like) give the man a break! LOL I'm going to use a silly metaphor to help us understand what it is like for a man to try
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, Do you have to start your relationship strong to be a strong couple? Others are telling me to end it before it is to late…
Dear Committed (in a good way LOL), Every relationship begins differently and has its own unique story. Our beginning was less than ideal. We were young adults but living like teenagers. We worked but we
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get the love back I first had for my husband? I love him but life is so crazy and distracting we have lost the passion for each other?
Dear Good and Concerned Wifey, life is crazy! With all the demands we have on us we tend to lose sight of what really matters. Loving your husband matters; he is your person and deserves
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, Make up sex, does it work? Is it really good to have sex after a fight?
Dear Let’s Make Up, I will always encourage married sex. Make up sex is a real thing. Just like we see in the movies?! LOL The movie scene where the couple usually has some sort
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, After being married for so many years, is it uncommon to no longer enjoy sex with your spouse?
Dear Married, No matter how long you have been married you should not just enjoy sex but be able to have an orgasm. This is why every marriage still needs oral sex and foreplay. I
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