Do you believe in miracles? What’s your faith or religion? I’m currently struggling tuning into God. Can you help? Dear Faithful, I define myself as a child of God. I consider myself a Christian. As
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Dear Ultimate Abbey,
Do you take advantage of your birthday? Is it ok to not want to be with my kids and is it ok do do my own thing? I feel selfish… Dear Concerned Mommy, I have
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, My husband and I are sexually active. However, I know I can enjoy sex more than I am now. We have been married over seven years and I find it hard to tell him what I like in bed. He is definitely willing to please me and is not selfish. How and when is the right time to talk about what will give me an orgasm?
Dear Mrs. Potential,My first words, (you may not like) give the man a break! LOL I'm going to use a silly metaphor to help us understand what it is like for a man to try
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, Do you have to start your relationship strong to be a strong couple? Others are telling me to end it before it is to late…
Dear Committed (in a good way LOL), Every relationship begins differently and has its own unique story. Our beginning was less than ideal. We were young adults but living like teenagers. We worked but we
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Who else has the summertime laundry blues? “I’m caught up with laundry” said, no woman ever.
Ok… This applies to ANYONE who has children! For some reason those little bodies wear a lot of little clothes and somehow a household of four seems like you are running a laundromat. More power
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No cook dinner!
We love cutting ingredients up, place everything on a big cutting board, and BAM you have a free for all dinner. I will be posting different boards, for your hungry tummy. These are great for
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, 2 to 3 times a week I meet my friend at the gym after work for an hour. However, the last few weeks one time a week we have not worked out. We sit in the sauna and just spend time venting to each other. This has not been good for my workouts but really good for my girlfriend and I to manage stress. I have been more patient at home with kids and my husband. BUT why do I feel so guilty?
Dear Guilty, The fact that you put time aside for yourself and you have a friend to hold you accountable is wonderful! What a good friend to meet you and confide in a few times
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Abbey’s Turned up Chicken Rice Soup… hold the chicken please!
Amount served 12, prep time 40, cook time 10, Total time 50 minutes. Calories per serving 177, fat 8.7 g, Carbs 28.9 g, protein 6.8 g If you have an Insta pot this will make
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, After being married for so many years, is it uncommon to no longer enjoy sex with your spouse?
Dear Married, No matter how long you have been married you should not just enjoy sex but be able to have an orgasm. This is why every marriage still needs oral sex and foreplay. I
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Kicked UP Shrimp Salad
Abbey, can you give me a protein filled, fun, yummy, dinner salad idea, even my kids will like?!
Hey my friend from N.C. Why don't you try this? I don't know what your kids like but mine are not picky and this is a family favorite. Currently, training and I am exceptionally hungry
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