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Dear Ultimate Abbey, My husband and I are sexually active. However, I know I can enjoy sex more than I am now. We have been married over seven years and I find it hard to tell him what I like in bed. He is definitely willing to please me and is not selfish. How and when is the right time to talk about what will give me an orgasm?

June 29, 2020June 29, 2020 BLOG, LOVE, Marriage #balance, #goodsexlife, #marriage, #marriage101, #married, #marriedsex, #momlife

Dear Mrs. Potential,My first words, (you may not like) give the man a break! LOL I'm going to use a silly metaphor to help us understand what it is like for a man to try

Dear Ultimate Abbey, Do you have to start your relationship strong to be a strong couple? Others are telling me to end it before it is to late…

March 30, 2020March 30, 2020 BLOG, Marriage, ULTIMATE ABBEY #christainparenting, #healthyrelationship, #love, #marriage, #marriage101, #marriedsex, #momlife, moms

Dear Committed (in a good way LOL), Every relationship begins differently and has its own unique story. Our beginning was less than ideal. We were young adults but living like teenagers. We worked but we

Who else has the summertime laundry blues? “I’m caught up with laundry” said, no woman ever.

July 16, 2019July 16, 2019 BLOG, MOMS, ULTIMATE ABBEY

Ok… This applies to ANYONE who has children! For some reason those little bodies wear a lot of little clothes and somehow a household of four seems like you are running a laundromat. More power

No cook dinner!

April 15, 2019April 15, 2019 BLOG, HEALTHY EATS #foodies, #freeadvice, #healthyeating, #healthyeats, #healthyliving, #quickdinner, #workingmoms, moms

We love cutting ingredients up, place everything on a big cutting board, and BAM you have a free for all dinner. I will be posting different boards, for your hungry tummy. These are great for

Dear Ultimate Abbey, 2 to 3 times a week I meet my friend at the gym after work for an hour. However, the last few weeks one time a week we have not worked out. We sit in the sauna and just spend time venting to each other. This has not been good for my workouts but really good for my girlfriend and I to manage stress. I have been more patient at home with kids and my husband. BUT why do I feel so guilty?

April 2, 2019April 2, 2019 BLOG, MOMS, SELF CARE #freeadvice, #healthyliving, #momlife, #selfcare, advice

Dear Guilty, The fact that you put time aside for yourself and you have a friend to hold you accountable is wonderful! What a good friend to meet you and confide in a few times

Abbey’s Turned up Chicken Rice Soup… hold the chicken please!

April 1, 2019April 1, 2019 BLOG, HEALTHY EATS, MOMS #healthyeating, #momlife, #recipes, #soup, moms

Amount served 12, prep time 40, cook time 10, Total time 50 minutes. Calories per serving 177, fat 8.7 g, Carbs 28.9 g, protein 6.8 g If you have an Insta pot this will make

Dear Ultimate Abbey, After being married for so many years, is it uncommon to no longer enjoy sex with your spouse?

March 30, 2019March 30, 2019 BLOG, LOVE, Marriage

Dear Married, No matter how long you have been married you should not just enjoy sex but be able to have an orgasm. This is why every marriage still needs oral sex and foreplay. I

Kicked UP Shrimp Salad

Abbey, can you give me a protein filled, fun, yummy, dinner salad idea, even my kids will like?!

March 16, 2019March 19, 2019 BLOG, HEALTHY EATS, ULTIMATE ABBEY dinner, healthy, pescatarian, protein, quick, salad, shrimp

Hey my friend from N.C. Why don't you try this? I don't know what your kids like but mine are not picky and this is a family favorite. Currently, training and I am exceptionally hungry