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Dear Ultimate Abbey, My husband and I are sexually active. However, I know I can enjoy sex more than I am now. We have been married over seven years and I find it hard to tell him what I like in bed. He is definitely willing to please me and is not selfish. How and when is the right time to talk about what will give me an orgasm?

June 29, 2020June 29, 2020 BLOG, LOVE, Marriage #balance, #goodsexlife, #marriage, #marriage101, #married, #marriedsex, #momlife

Dear Mrs. Potential,My first words, (you may not like) give the man a break! LOL I'm going to use a silly metaphor to help us understand what it is like for a man to try

Dear Ultimate Abbey, Do you have to start your relationship strong to be a strong couple? Others are telling me to end it before it is to late…

March 30, 2020March 30, 2020 BLOG, Marriage, ULTIMATE ABBEY #christainparenting, #healthyrelationship, #love, #marriage, #marriage101, #marriedsex, #momlife, moms

Dear Committed (in a good way LOL), Every relationship begins differently and has its own unique story. Our beginning was less than ideal. We were young adults but living like teenagers. We worked but we

Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get my schedule aka life to where I need it to be? Between working, house, managing my kids and their schedules, I feel like I will never be able to breathe? Please help!

January 10, 2020January 28, 2020 MOMS, SELF CARE, ULTIMATE ABBEY #family, #healthylife, #healthymarriage, #momlife, #selfcare, balance, mom

Simple But Not Simple Answer... Every solution comes with just another thing to do But this to do will eventually make your life easier..... PLAN... Yep you have to plan... Like everything LOL Wait! Keep

Who else has the summertime laundry blues? “I’m caught up with laundry” said, no woman ever.

July 16, 2019July 16, 2019 BLOG, MOMS, ULTIMATE ABBEY

Ok… This applies to ANYONE who has children! For some reason those little bodies wear a lot of little clothes and somehow a household of four seems like you are running a laundromat. More power

Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I introduce my children to lesbian and gay friends?

May 20, 2019May 20, 2019 MOMS, ULTIMATE ABBEY #christainparenting, #freeadvice, #marriage, #marriage101, #momlife, #professionaladvice, moms

Dear Parent, I appreciate your concern for your child’s sensitivity and innocence. Depending on how long you have known your friend(s) this can look differently. If you have known your friend for a while, chances

Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get the love back I first had for my husband? I love him but life is so crazy and distracting we have lost the passion for each other?

May 7, 2019May 7, 2019 Marriage, MOMS, ULTIMATE ABBEY #freeadvice, #marriage, #marriage101, #married, #marriedsex, #momlife, #professionaladvice, moms

Dear Good and Concerned Wifey, life is crazy! With all the demands we have on us we tend to lose sight of what really matters. Loving your husband matters; he is your person and deserves

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Dear Ultimate Abbey, Do you have to start your relationship strong to be a strong couple? Others are telling me to end it before it is to late…

Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get my schedule aka life to where I need it to be? Between working, house, managing my kids and their schedules, I feel like I will never be able to breathe? Please help!

Who else has the summertime laundry blues? “I’m caught up with laundry” said, no woman ever.

Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I introduce my children to lesbian and gay friends?

Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get the love back I first had for my husband? I love him but life is so crazy and distracting we have lost the passion for each other?

Dear Ultimate Abbey, Make up sex, does it work? Is it really good to have sex after a fight?

No cook dinner!

Healthier Jar, skip the candy

Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do you know you are doing OK as a mom?