Simple But Not Simple Answer... Every solution comes with just another thing to do But this to do will eventually make your life easier..... PLAN... Yep you have to plan... Like everything LOL Wait! Keep
Continue ReadingAuthor: ultimateabbey
Who else has the summertime laundry blues? “I’m caught up with laundry” said, no woman ever.
Ok… This applies to ANYONE who has children! For some reason those little bodies wear a lot of little clothes and somehow a household of four seems like you are running a laundromat. More power
Continue Reading
Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I introduce my children to lesbian and gay friends?
Dear Parent, I appreciate your concern for your child’s sensitivity and innocence. Depending on how long you have known your friend(s) this can look differently. If you have known your friend for a while, chances
Continue Reading
Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get the love back I first had for my husband? I love him but life is so crazy and distracting we have lost the passion for each other?
Dear Good and Concerned Wifey, life is crazy! With all the demands we have on us we tend to lose sight of what really matters. Loving your husband matters; he is your person and deserves
Continue Reading
Dear Ultimate Abbey, Make up sex, does it work? Is it really good to have sex after a fight?
Dear Let’s Make Up, I will always encourage married sex. Make up sex is a real thing. Just like we see in the movies?! LOL The movie scene where the couple usually has some sort
Continue Reading
No cook dinner!
We love cutting ingredients up, place everything on a big cutting board, and BAM you have a free for all dinner. I will be posting different boards, for your hungry tummy. These are great for
Continue Reading
Healthier Jar, skip the candy
Skip the candy and get creative and healthier.
Continue Reading
Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do you know you are doing OK as a mom?
Dear prevailing momma, our victories maybe small the first 16 to 18 years of their lives. But all the small victories add up to a great human!Watching our children walk, talk, getting good grades in
Continue Reading
Dear Ultimate Abbey, What will help anxiety and please don’t say; see a doctor or medicine?
Dear Anxious, there are many different natural remedies to deal with anxiety. I will not say medicine BUT bloodwork is very informative when it comes to our mental health. We will discuss several routes to
Continue Reading
Dear Ultimate Abbey, 2 to 3 times a week I meet my friend at the gym after work for an hour. However, the last few weeks one time a week we have not worked out. We sit in the sauna and just spend time venting to each other. This has not been good for my workouts but really good for my girlfriend and I to manage stress. I have been more patient at home with kids and my husband. BUT why do I feel so guilty?
Dear Guilty, The fact that you put time aside for yourself and you have a friend to hold you accountable is wonderful! What a good friend to meet you and confide in a few times
Continue Reading