Do you believe in miracles? What’s your faith or religion? I’m currently struggling tuning into God. Can you help? Dear Faithful, I define myself as a child of God. I consider myself a Christian. As
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Dear Ultimate Abbey,
Do you take advantage of your birthday? Is it ok to not want to be with my kids and is it ok do do my own thing? I feel selfish… Dear Concerned Mommy, I have
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, My husband and I are sexually active. However, I know I can enjoy sex more than I am now. We have been married over seven years and I find it hard to tell him what I like in bed. He is definitely willing to please me and is not selfish. How and when is the right time to talk about what will give me an orgasm?
Dear Mrs. Potential,My first words, (you may not like) give the man a break! LOL I'm going to use a silly metaphor to help us understand what it is like for a man to try
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, Do you have to start your relationship strong to be a strong couple? Others are telling me to end it before it is to late…
Dear Committed (in a good way LOL), Every relationship begins differently and has its own unique story. Our beginning was less than ideal. We were young adults but living like teenagers. We worked but we
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get my schedule aka life to where I need it to be? Between working, house, managing my kids and their schedules, I feel like I will never be able to breathe? Please help!
Simple But Not Simple Answer... Every solution comes with just another thing to do But this to do will eventually make your life easier..... PLAN... Yep you have to plan... Like everything LOL Wait! Keep
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Who else has the summertime laundry blues? “I’m caught up with laundry” said, no woman ever.
Ok… This applies to ANYONE who has children! For some reason those little bodies wear a lot of little clothes and somehow a household of four seems like you are running a laundromat. More power
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I introduce my children to lesbian and gay friends?
Dear Parent, I appreciate your concern for your child’s sensitivity and innocence. Depending on how long you have known your friend(s) this can look differently. If you have known your friend for a while, chances
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, How do I get the love back I first had for my husband? I love him but life is so crazy and distracting we have lost the passion for each other?
Dear Good and Concerned Wifey, life is crazy! With all the demands we have on us we tend to lose sight of what really matters. Loving your husband matters; he is your person and deserves
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Dear Ultimate Abbey, Make up sex, does it work? Is it really good to have sex after a fight?
Dear Let’s Make Up, I will always encourage married sex. Make up sex is a real thing. Just like we see in the movies?! LOL The movie scene where the couple usually has some sort
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No cook dinner!
We love cutting ingredients up, place everything on a big cutting board, and BAM you have a free for all dinner. I will be posting different boards, for your hungry tummy. These are great for
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